People who are focused on the superficial are always trying to figure out how to connect to what they receive from others in a relationship. They do not appreciate and feel the essential power of a soul-level connection.
They frequently focus on what it is that they need to do to prevent a severing of the relationship due to the differences between them. They do not deal directly with any differences that they have. Even if there is an inner point of connection it is never truly expressed and remains hidden from them.
This is one of the issues with using graphology or other methodologies to learn about someone. They define a person in terms of his or her strong and weak points and make it more difficult to see beyond the preconceived notion to the inner person. For the person himself these tools make it more difficult to see who he truly is.
In any relationship that involves give-and-take if the giver is always seeking something external to justify her giving the relationship will not last. Any small change, even one that may not be easily discernible, will cause distance and dissension as there is nothing internal connecting them. Even the good points of one of them can cause separation if they are not shared by both of them.
However if he finds in the recipient an inner beauty (בטח בה לה בעלה) then the relationship can withstand even significant differences and issues that may arise. All external issues are nothing in the face of an inner connection that captures the heart.
They frequently focus on what it is that they need to do to prevent a severing of the relationship due to the differences between them. They do not deal directly with any differences that they have. Even if there is an inner point of connection it is never truly expressed and remains hidden from them.
This is one of the issues with using graphology or other methodologies to learn about someone. They define a person in terms of his or her strong and weak points and make it more difficult to see beyond the preconceived notion to the inner person. For the person himself these tools make it more difficult to see who he truly is.
In any relationship that involves give-and-take if the giver is always seeking something external to justify her giving the relationship will not last. Any small change, even one that may not be easily discernible, will cause distance and dissension as there is nothing internal connecting them. Even the good points of one of them can cause separation if they are not shared by both of them.
However if he finds in the recipient an inner beauty (בטח בה לה בעלה) then the relationship can withstand even significant differences and issues that may arise. All external issues are nothing in the face of an inner connection that captures the heart.
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