When an inner relationship exists all the externalities can be arranged so that everything works smoothly. If, for example, a woman is not an expert in some aspect of house-keeping - something which her husband needs - if they have an excellent internal relationship they will have the skills to solve this side issue and make everything right between them. In this way, the inner relationship is shining light on the outer. The fact is that working on external issues without first solidifying the inner relationship is ultimately a waste of time. As they are not internally in sync they have no foundation on which to find external solutions. The trick is to focus initially on the internal, perhaps to allow in to affect the external somewhat, but to continue focusing on the internal so that the two hearts are communicating.
The same is true when a person's heart is complete with Hashem with true love. If in his Halachic observance there are certain areas in which, despite his efforts, he is lacking he may feels distant from Hashem in consequence and feel lost as to what to do. If he comes to an understanding rabbi who properly understands the application of Halacha and understands people as well, the rabbi will advise him on how to conduct himself in accordance with his own abilities and personality. By following the prescription he will then feel connected to Hashem externally as well.
The same is true when a person's heart is complete with Hashem with true love. If in his Halachic observance there are certain areas in which, despite his efforts, he is lacking he may feels distant from Hashem in consequence and feel lost as to what to do. If he comes to an understanding rabbi who properly understands the application of Halacha and understands people as well, the rabbi will advise him on how to conduct himself in accordance with his own abilities and personality. By following the prescription he will then feel connected to Hashem externally as well.
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