When one is expressing his pain at the distance between himself and someone with whom he is close, the scream is quite frightening. However, it is a scream that cannot be heard by an outsider. Only to the person to whom the words are directed will the words cause a trembling fright from the scream inherent in the soft words of the one with whom he is close.
Clearly, between people who are close shouting loudly is unnecessary, speaking honestly about pain in the heart is much more effective. Frequently one doesn't even need to mention the pain. It is enough to speak with words of praise and honor to the other and it can then quickly become apparent what is missing in the relationship.
Clearly, between people who are close shouting loudly is unnecessary, speaking honestly about pain in the heart is much more effective. Frequently one doesn't even need to mention the pain. It is enough to speak with words of praise and honor to the other and it can then quickly become apparent what is missing in the relationship.
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