In general, a person doesn't find himself in a state of bring lost. A close relationship is not replete with groans, sighs, and cries. Rather, it is built upon sweetness, peace and togetherness. But even when a person feels that way, he has the ability to connect to Hashem by sighing, which, rather than being a sign of separation and distance, is really a symbol of a relationship.
People mistakenly think that hisbodidus primarily consists of crying and screaming out to Hashem out of pain. This is because many people first adopt the approach of Breslov when they find themselves in dire straits and only Rebbe Nachman's approach seems to offer them hope.
People mistakenly think that hisbodidus primarily consists of crying and screaming out to Hashem out of pain. This is because many people first adopt the approach of Breslov when they find themselves in dire straits and only Rebbe Nachman's approach seems to offer them hope.